Privacy is a blessing

Translation by Yehoshua Siskin

Is there any event in our lives that we would not share on social media? Is there something that we saw that we would not immediately photograph and document? In this week’s Torah Portion, Bilaam gazes upon the tents of our forefathers and from his mouth a blessing bursts forth: “How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwelling places, O Israel!”. Rashi explains what made such a deep impression on Bilaam: “He saw that the tent entrances were not facing each other”. In other words, each tent faced a different direction so that no one could see into the tent of anyone else.

Bilaam came from a culture without boundaries. Suddenly he saw a culture of privacy, gentleness, modesty, hallowed personal space for every family and every human being, a culture without concern for constant updates on the news in every person’s life.

Our commentators write that this is the foundation for building our character, our home, and our nation – not everyone lives in the same tent. Everything does not belong to everyone. Today this is an enormous challenge. There are so many buttons that say “publish” and “share,” but how do we create a button that says “Don’t publish, this is ours alone”?

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Sivan Rahav-Meir is a media personality and lecturer. Married to Yedidya, the mother of five. Lives in Jerusalem. She works for Israel TV news, writes a column for Yediot Aharonot newspaper, and hosts a weekly radio show on Galei Zahal (Army Radio). Her lectures on the weekly Torah portion are attended by hundreds and the live broadcast attracts thousands more listeners throughout the world.
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