Fear of faliure? Fear of success!

Translation by Yehoshua Siskin

We are afraid to fail although, in fact, we are also afraid to succeed. The famous Jewish-American psychologist Abraham Maslow called this the “Jonah complex”. Jonah the prophet fled from his mission in life, from the command to go to the city of Nineveh. He ran away simply in order not to realize his potential.

 

There are commentators who explain that’s what happens in this week’s Torah portion. Twelve spies are sent to the Land of Israel. Only two choose to explain what they see in an optimistic and empowering way and proclaim that it would be worthwhile to continue on the journey. Ten spies announce that there is no possibility of success and it would be preferable to remain in the desert.

What happened to them? Indeed, it was scary to enter the Land of Israel and to realize our purpose. It was an awesome task that carried a message for the entire world. As Professor Maslow explains, it is easier for us sometimes to repress the positive forces within us. Simply to run away from growth and greatness into our comfort zone.

Even today we are likely to sin with the sin of the spies – in our personal and national lives – and fail to realize any great vision, the very dream of all the generations that came before us. We may rather “remain in the desert” instead of going beyond ourselves.

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Sivan Rahav-Meir is a media personality and lecturer. Married to Yedidya, the mother of five. Lives in Jerusalem. She works for Israel TV news, writes a column for Yediot Aharonot newspaper, and hosts a weekly radio show on Galei Zahal (Army Radio). Her lectures on the weekly Torah portion are attended by hundreds and the live broadcast attracts thousands more listeners throughout the world.
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