Expanding the Cycle of Strength

I was privileged to interview Rachelli Fraenkel and Sherryl Mandell in front of hundreds of people yesterday in London. Racheli lost her son, Naftali, who was kidnapped and murdered together with the boys Gil-ad and Eyal. Sherryl’s son, Daniel Mandell, was killed in a military operation in Shchem (Nablus). These two impressive women surprised me with the message they asked to convey:

This is what Sherryl said: “I received a huge hug from the People of Israel, unimaginable support, and this is what sustained me. I ask that you should treat this way anyone who suffers any kind of distress around you. Just look for them and make them get help.”

Rachelli took it one step further: “our society has an unfortunate hierarchy of bereavement. In the first place there are the families of army and terror victims, and there are even VIP cases, known stories like ourselves. Then come families who experienced loss due to disease and accidents, and then victims of crime and suicide. If just a fraction of the unbelievable support we have received would be extended to people coping with loss in our civilian life – we would have a much better society. All the special attention that we receive, all the love, caring, compassion and strength, the amazing hug and support we are capable of – these should be there also in cases of ‘regular’ bereavement, because there is no such thing as regular bereavement.
This energy can change Israel.”

When we got off the stage, we heard about four more families who lost their dear ones in a tragedy at a construction site.

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Sivan Rahav-Meir is a media personality and lecturer. Married to Yedidya, the mother of five. Lives in Jerusalem. She works for Israel TV news, writes a column for Yediot Aharonot newspaper, and hosts a weekly radio show on Galei Zahal (Army Radio). Her lectures on the weekly Torah portion are attended by hundreds and the live broadcast attracts thousands more listeners throughout the world.
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